Coming soon
OffMenu is coming soon.
A non-play social platform for the ENM, poly, kink, queer, and broader alt-lifestyle communities. Sign up to be notified when we launch.
One email at launch. No newsletter, no marketing.
Why OffMenu?
Real people, real meetups
Munches, mixers, potlucks, classes, and discussion groups — IRL gatherings where the goal is conversation, not matchmaking.
Privacy is a default
Scene names by default. Real names optional and hidden until you choose to show them. No DMs, no public photo feeds.
Built for the whole alt-lifestyle community
A non-play social platform for ENM, poly, kink, queer, trans, and adjacent folks. Code of conduct first. Founding-host driven.
For organizers
Help launch OffMenu in your city
We're recruiting 3–5 founding hosts to plant the flag in cities across the US. If you've thought about organizing — or already do — let's talk.
Featured placement
Your events surface first on your city’s page, and your scene name carries a founding host badge people can see.
Direct input on product
A real say in what we build before public launch. We’ll share the roadmap and incorporate your feedback.
Who we're looking for: people who've organized informally in their alt-lifestyle community, or who are excited to start. Willingness to host at least one event in launch month. Belief in the code of conduct.
Already know an organizer who'd be perfect? Forward them this page.
Built by an ENM/poly couple in South Florida.